“Ain’t Got Time for Drama, Man”
Let me tell you, I’m taking a fresh approach to life these days. I don’t need extra noise, you know? We all get one chance here, and filling it up with drama? Not the way for me. There’s this idea floating around that we should be connected with everyone around us, especially the people who live nearby. But does being neighbors really mean we’re meant to be friends? I’m starting to think… no, not really.
I’m good with the people I grew up with, those who’ve been there for the whole ride. These are people who know me—and I mean really know me. We’ve had time to argue, to laugh, to be on opposite ends of things, but we’re still solid. That kind of bond doesn’t come from just living on the same block. It comes from years of shared experiences, trust built slowly, disagreements that actually deepen the connection rather than end it.
Grateful for the Real Ones, Few as They May Be
It’s not like I’m ungrateful. I’m beyond grateful for the few strong connections I’ve made—they’re the rare ones, the kind of people who stick with you no matter how much life pulls you in different directions. But if I’m being honest, these true friendships feel like they’re far and few between. Quality over quantity, right? And that quality is something I’ve found with a handful of people, not an entire town. These bonds are deep, genuine, and they don’t come around often.
Experimenting with Local Connections: It’s Not Me, It’s Them
I’ve tried, you know? There were moments where I thought, “Why not reach out to a few folks around here? Maybe there’s some common ground.” But as it turns out, most of those connections didn’t really pan out. It’s like trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. Since 1986, I’ve always been just a bit… off-kilter for most of the locals. And after a while, I had to admit it wasn’t me—it was them. Sure, they’re fine people, but maybe not my people.
Social media really put that in perspective. I realized that connection isn’t just about proximity, it’s about something deeper, something that can’t be faked or forced. It’s the people who get you without needing you to explain. And while I respect the locals, the effort to fit in or find common ground was energy better spent on the connections that really matter.
Saying Goodbye to Local Social Media Connections
So, I’m taking a step back from a lot of these social media connections with people I only sort of know. It’s like I’m carrying all this extra baggage of acquaintances, people who are only tied to me because we happened to land in the same zip code. That’s not a reason for connection; that’s geography.
And here’s the thing: they probably won’t miss me. Maybe they don’t even notice I’m gone. And if that’s the case, then why were we connected in the first place? My goal isn’t to rack up numbers on a friend list. It’s about quality over quantity, you know?
History Over Hype
The truth is, I’ve got enough good people in my life. And they’re people who were there long before social media, before we had to filter our lives into status updates and like buttons. They’re the ones who still know how to pick up a phone and catch up like no time has passed. They might not agree with me on every issue, but our history outweighs any disagreement. With them, I can be myself, without the performance.
So, here’s to keeping it real with the people who matter the most, even if that list is getting a little shorter. If we didn’t meet in my high school cafeteria or at that local corner shop where we all used to hang out, chances are I’m good without knowing what you had for breakfast today. Bon voyage to the acquaintances, the half-friends, the folks I barely know. It’s nothing personal—it’s just a fresh way of looking at what actually matters in this one wild ride of a life.
That’s the vibe. Take it or leave it.
