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TAPinto the Silence: Why Did It Take 11 Days to Post the Valeski Story?

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By Eyes on EB
Published October 25, 2024

If you’re wondering why some East Brunswick residents are raising their eyebrows this week, it’s not just allergy season — it’s because a major news story was announced on May 7… and didn’t make it to TAPinto East Brunswick’s Facebook page until May 18.

That’s an 11-day delay for a retirement story involving the Superintendent of Schools — you know, the person who oversees our kids’ education and eats up a good chunk of the town’s budget.

Naturally, people had questions.


It All Started with a Comment in East Brunswick Group of True Transparency

The thread began when M.S., one of the more vocal contributors on local Facebook forums, asked:

“Anyone want to speculate as to why this was published in TAPinto Milltown/Spotswood and not East Brunswick?”

Great question. It was a TAPinto EB story… just not posted by TAPinto EB. At least, not until people started noticing.


The Delay Heard Around Town

The story eventually appeared on TAPinto East Brunswick’s website, but not on their Facebook page, which is how most residents stay up to date.

So where did it show up?
Milltown/Spotswood. Because that makes sense…?

“Apparently, it’s not considered EB news ??‍♂️” — M.S.

Enter R.W., a rising contributor and a master of subtlety:

“I’m sure there’s a good reason… I love being diplomatic, Rob.”

Translation: This is sketchy, but I’m not trying to get kicked out of the group today.


Speculation Brews Like a PTA Coffee Clash

Then S.D., a group admin, casually floated:

“I have a few wild theories surrounding V.V.’s ‘retirement.’”

While we won’t publish those theories here (yet), the real kicker came from M.S., who offered this blunt assessment:

“The toxic environment is/was of his own making… The effort to suppress Figueroa’s vote put him past the point of no return… We need forward thinkers – Not Cover-up Conspiracies.”

Oof. If Facebook comments could be entered into the public record, this one would be laminated.


Eyes on EB Chimes In

When we joined the thread, we pointed out the obvious:

“This platform has been protecting the establishment for years. They are part of the status quo… If they posted the article and shut off the comments, they’d hear it from many of us.”

And perhaps most importantly:

“Once you make too many friends in this ‘business,’ it becomes hard to be truthful.”


TAPinto’s Statement and… Finally, a Facebook Post

After all the back-and-forth, TAPinto East Brunswick finally posted the article on their page — on May 18.

“As confirmed Friday by the Office of the Middlesex County Superintendent of Schools, Valeski is one of six school superintendents who have announced that he is leaving his current position.”

Glad to see it! But… shouldn’t the leading source for town news be the first to post it, not the last?

When a superintendent announces his retirement, it’s not a footnote — it’s a front-page moment. And for some reason, the article was initially shared on neighboring towns’ pages, which only added to the weirdness.


Final Thought

When a local news outlet delays posting one of the biggest education stories of the year, it’s no wonder people start to ask questions. TAPinto East Brunswick describes itself as an objective source for local news — and as part of a network that claims to fill the gap left by traditional journalism, residents expect timely and transparent coverage.

So it’s fair to ask:
Why did TAPinto Milltown get there first?
Why did it take 11 days for TAPinto East Brunswick to post it on Facebook — especially when that’s where most people follow the news?

We’re not saying there’s an agenda.
We’re just saying… people notice.

And in East Brunswick, they always notice.

Eyes on EB ?️
“Because if we don’t watch… who will?”

Fuel One and the Five Dollar Heist: East Brunswick’s Great Gas Station Showdown

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One and the Five Dollar Heist East Brunswick’s Great Gas Station Showdown

$5 CHANGE, 4,000 PENNIES, AND A TOWN UNITED

It started with a simple fill-up at Fuel One next to Papa John’s. What followed was nothing short of a community uprising, a tale of betrayal, determination, and revenge best served… in Ziploc bags.

An East Brunswick resident, known here only as S.W., dared to pay for his gas in cold, hard cash. He handed the attendant $60 for $40.59 in gas. Easy math, right? Not at Fuel One, where reality is negotiable and change vanishes faster than a BOE meeting agenda. After a bizarre exchange of bills and disbelief, S.W. was shorted $5. When he demanded the proper change, the attendant stared him down and delivered a line that will live in infamy: “Check your wallet.”

NO RECEIPT, NO JUSTICE, JUST VENGEANCE

Instead of just walking away angry like most of us do after a mild injustice, S.W. announced his revenge plan: return to the scene of the crime with exactly $40 worth of pennies. Four. Thousand. Pennies. “Count it up! It’s all there, you SOB,” he declared with the kind of energy that fuels local legends.

One commenter (C.M.) gave the plan their full endorsement: “I love the penny idea!!! Do it!!!” But others were skeptical. D.D.T. warned, “He won’t take pennies or any change!” And therein lies the plot twist. Would the attendant even accept such a coppery payload? Or would this spiral into a full-on showdown involving law enforcement, Ziploc bags, and a whole lot of jingling?

A PATTERN OF SHADY PUMP PRACTICES?

Turns out S.W. wasn’t alone. S.P. revealed she’d been shorted twice at the same station — by two different workers. N.M. chimed in: “Kept my change and told me he was keeping it for a tip.” Another (J.A.O.C.) refused to leave without her extra dollar — and apparently, the attendant coughed it up like it was his last breath of dignity.

This isn’t just an isolated oopsie. It’s a pattern. Commenters flooded the post with similar stories, comparing scars like veterans of the Gas Station War. From credit card upcharges to unsolicited tip requests, one thing was clear: East Brunswick has had enough.

FROM GAS STATION TO STAGECOACH ROBBERY

“I’m 60 years old,” said I.Y.P., “and I never thought I’d say this, but I’m really starting to dislike people!” Another local hero A.C. took it a step further: “I refused to pay the extra. Told him to syphon it out. Cop sided with me. I drove off with the gas.”

We salute you, ma’am.

One helpful soul (D.W.) dropped the bureaucratic equivalent of a mic with links to the FTC, NJ Consumer Affairs, and the BBB, encouraging the masses to report the station. “They won’t be pulling this stunt long,” he warned, “and they’re getting what happens to be their first Google review right now.”

THE FINAL FILL-UP

So now we wait. Will S.W. return with his bag of pennies? Will the attendant accept them, or call the cops over legal tender? Will someone finally bring a receipt printer to that station? Or will East Brunswick rise up, armed with coins and consumer complaints?

Only time will tell. But until then, remember this:

Tip your waiter. Tip your barber. But if your gas station attendant has sticky fingers? Bring pennies. Lots of ‘em.

Eyes on EB: Watching so you don’t get shortchanged — literally.

When Comments Are Turned Off, So Is Conversation

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A Familiar Pattern in East Brunswick

Something happened this week that’s become all too familiar in East Brunswick — a national story with local ties was posted, and just as fast as the reactions started rolling in, the ability to discuss it was shut down.

The post in question was shared by a well-known local media outlet, covering the federal trespassing charges involving Newark’s mayor and potential repercussions for several members of Congress. Controversial? Sure. Worth talking about? Definitely. But instead of opening the floor to conversation, the comments were limited. Not hidden. Not moderated. Just blocked.

And people noticed.

The Community Reaction

On a local transparency-focused group, residents immediately picked up on it. One commenter called it “yikes,” while another asked the natural question: who decides who gets to comment, and why? There was frustration — not just over the story itself, but over being denied a public square to respond to it.

Others mentioned that they were able to comment on some stories, but not others — which only added to the confusion. It doesn’t take much to see how easily this kind of selective engagement can feel like editorial bias, even if it’s not intended that way.

The Township’s Trend Toward Limiting Discussion

This isn’t the first time we’ve seen something like this. It’s becoming increasingly common — not just from media pages, but from official township sources too. Posts that could spark important, necessary debate are being locked down before they even have the chance to breathe.

To be fair, moderating comment sections isn’t easy. The internet isn’t always kind, and nobody wants to host a flame war. But there’s a difference between protecting civil discourse and preventing it altogether.

Why Open Comments Matter

In this case, the story involves elected officials. The type of story where people should be able to express concerns, ask questions, or even just say how they feel — because these are the people shaping the communities we live in.

Turning off the comments might reduce headaches in the short term, but long term, it erodes trust. It sends a message — intended or not — that only certain voices matter, or that public reaction isn’t welcome unless it follows a certain script.

Journalism Requires Conversation

Independent journalism exists to foster transparency and accountability. And that requires conversation. Even uncomfortable ones.

If our local news and public institutions truly want to serve the public, they need to be willing to listen to it — not just talk at it.

? East Brunswick Bears Weekly Sports Recap – Week of May 5 – May 10, 2025

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Week of May 5 – May 10, 2025


⚾ Baseball

Record: 12-8 (9-5 GMC Red)

  • W 16-3 vs. Trenton
    Jared MacWithey went 3-for-3 with 3 RBIs, and Joe Spinello drove in 4 runs as EB exploded for 11 runs in the third inning.

  • L 0-10 vs. Brick Memorial
    The Bears were shut out at home, managing only 3 hits against a tough Brick Memorial squad.

  • W 4-3 vs. Watchung Hills
    Joe Spinello launched a clutch home run, and Sean Christie closed it out on the mound for the bounce-back win.


? Softball

Record: 20-1 (11-1 GMC White)

  • W 4-1 vs. Woodbridge
    D’Liah Kercado drove in 2 runs, and Anabella Stagliano pitched a complete game.

  • W 13-1 vs. South Brunswick
    EB scored 11 in the first inning. Isabella Warrington had 4 RBIs and Christina Lee struck out 6.

  • W 12-2 vs. Old Bridge
    Stagliano had 3 hits and 2 RBIs, while Christina Lee knocked in 3 in a rout over the Knights.


?️‍♂️ Boys Golf

Record: 13-2

  • South Jersey, Group 4 Sectionals
    East Brunswick placed 12th out of 21 teams with a team score of 322.
    Hsieh Fong-Yang tied for 3rd individually with a 71, while Hsieh Fong-Hou shot 83 and Carlo Salardino added an 86.


?️‍♀️ Girls Golf

Record: 6-4

  • North Jersey, Group A Sectionals
    The Bears placed 5th out of 13 teams with a score of 382.
    Dasha Patel led the way with an 83. Tasneem Basrai (92) and Isabella Loufek (99) rounded out the scoring.


? Boys Volleyball

Record: 10-13 (1-9 GMC Red)

  • L 0-2 vs. Bridgewater-Raritan
    Despite 23 assists from Kevin Lu and 8 kills from Colin Hou, EB dropped both sets.

  • W 2-0 vs. Hopewell Valley
    EB bounced back with a straight-sets win, led by Jason Ernst (5 kills) and Colin Hou (8 kills).

  • W 2-1 vs. North Brunswick
    In a thriller, EB edged North Brunswick behind Ernst’s 13 kills and Lu’s 44 assists.


? Boys Tennis

Record: 10-3 (5-2 GMC Red)

  • W 5-0 vs. Bridgewater-Raritan
    EB swept all five matches without dropping a set.

  • W 4-1 vs. Westfield (Newark Academy Invite)
    Big win against a tough 11-win Westfield squad. Jayden He and Romit Shah dominated in doubles.


? Boys Lacrosse

Record: 7-8 (2-1 GMC Red)

  • L 3-11 vs. Red Bank Regional
    Foster Dohn scored 1 goal in a rough loss. Silas Vega made 18 saves.

  • W 5-3 vs. Monroe (GMC Semifinals)
    Matthew Kurczeski had 2 goals and 2 assists, and Vega added 15 saves as EB punched their ticket to the GMC final.


? Girls Lacrosse

Record: 8-8-1 (2-5 GMC Red)

  • W 16-5 vs. South Plainfield
    Ava McVicar scored 6 goals, and Yana Popova had a monster 7-assist, 10-point game.

  • L 0-12 vs. Old Bridge
    EB was shut out against division-leading Old Bridge, despite a solid defensive effort early.

Trending Post: When Barking Dogs Sparked a Whole Town’s Input

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The Noise That Launched a Hundred Comments

There’s nothing quite like being woken up at the crack of dawn by a barking dog — unless it’s being kept awake all day because the dog won’t stop. And in East Brunswick, that scenario hit a nerve. What started as one frustrated resident venting in the East Brunswick Helping Each Other (EBHEO) group quickly turned into one of the most active, community-driven threads in recent memory.

The topic? Dogs barking from morning till night. And while most of us love our furry companions, there comes a point when enough is enough.

A Little Venting, A Lot of Insight

The post itself was simple: a complaint about constant barking and a question — “Can I do anything about this?” Within minutes, the comments poured in.

But here’s where it got interesting — instead of just venting back or tossing out one-liners, the community actually came together with real, actionable advice. People shared local ordinances, explained the process of calling the non-emergency line, and even linked directly to township code pages. Some gave empathetic takes about the dogs’ welfare. Others shared what worked for them — from documenting the noise to just having a calm chat with the neighbor.

One member even went so far as to post the exact wording of East Brunswick’s noise ordinance, complete with definitions of what qualifies as a violation. That single comment turned the post from a casual scroll to a mini masterclass in local enforcement and community living.

But Seriously… What Is the Dog Owner Doing?

Let’s just pause for a moment.

You’ve got a dog barking outside for hours. Not for a second. Not because the mailman showed up. All. Freaking. Day. At some point, doesn’t the dog owner… hear it? Or do they just sit inside sipping their third cup of coffee with their noise-canceling headphones on, marveling at their ability to live completely untethered from the concept of neighborly courtesy?

It’s almost impressive. Most people would feel a little bit of shame after the third hour of yapping. Not this champ. They’ve achieved a level of “I don’t care” usually reserved for sitcom characters and landlords who won’t return your call.

Either they’ve trained their ears to selectively filter out dog barks — in which case, please share that technique with the rest of us — or they’re just waiting to be featured in a Netflix true crime doc called “The Bark Next Door.”

Why This Matters

This wasn’t just a thread about barking dogs. It was a perfect snapshot of what makes EBHEO a valuable space — real neighbors helping each other with practical solutions, empathy, and the occasional sense of humor.

Let’s be honest: most of us have had a moment where we were this close to losing it over a persistent noise, whether it’s barking, leaf blowers, or mystery fireworks in July. But this post proved that when the right question gets asked in the right group, East Brunswick shows up.

The Eyes on EB Takeaway

Sometimes, solutions aren’t found in a rulebook or a phone call — they’re sparked in a Facebook thread full of tired, overcaffeinated residents trying to get through the day with their sanity intact.

Eyes on EB wants to remind you that you don’t need to suffer in silence (or in barking). Post your problem. Ask the question. You never know when the next trending post will turn into a playbook of solutions, straight from the people who live here too.


Follow Eyes on EB for more real talk, real problems, and the real ways this town pulls together — even when it’s over something as basic as peace and quiet.

Dr. Valeski Announces Retirement: Proof That When We Push Together, Big Things Can Happen

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A Community With a Common Goal

In East Brunswick, something big just happened. Dr. Victor Valeski, Superintendent of Schools, has officially announced his retirement. And while that might sound like just another administrative update, for many, it represents something more. A turning point. A shift. A reminder of what is possible when people decide to take action and stay consistent.

This was never about one person or one opinion. It was about a shared commitment to better schools, more transparency, and a district that listens to the needs of its students, teachers, taxpayers, and families.

You Do Not Have to Agree to Make Progress

We do not have to see eye to eye. We do not have to attend the same events or share the same politics. We do not even have to get along all the time. What matters is that when enough people care about a goal and keep showing up, change becomes real.

Jeff Winston and the Birth of East Brunswick Action

None of this reflection would be complete without recognizing Jeff Winston. Jeff has been a steady, determined voice for fairness and accountability in East Brunswick. He is the founder of East Brunswick Action, a group that has grown quickly over the past year and helped unify residents around the idea that local voices matter.

East Brunswick Action maintains the basic theory of power in numbers. They welcome new members who seek a forum to initiate township-impacting conversations with other members and develop actionable ideas to create change. They are non-partisan and proudly work together with all people.

Without Jeff’s leadership and the effort of East Brunswick Action, it is very unlikely this moment would be happening right now.

Credit to Everyone Who Showed Up

While Jeff may have been the spark, this effort was never about one person. It took parents who asked hard questions, students who paid attention, and taxpayers who refused to be ignored. Whether through social media, public comment, quiet support, or behind-the-scenes organizing, you played a part.

You mattered. And this moment is yours too.

Wishing Dr. Valeski the Best

As for Dr. Valeski, we wish him well. Whether retirement brings him peace, a consulting role, or another opportunity, we hope the next chapter brings him purpose and fulfillment. We believe in moving forward with respect, and we genuinely hope he finds happiness in whatever comes next.

The Work Is Not Over

This chapter may be ending, but the story of East Brunswick is still being written. Let this be a reminder. We do not need to be best friends to get things done. We just need to care. We just need to keep showing up. We just need to stay consistent.

Big things are possible when we all care enough to try.

Eyes on EB Urges Mayor to Avoid Parks Amid Rabies Concerns—We’re Genuinely Worried

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This Isn’t Politics. It’s About Public Safety (And Possibly Hissing)

At Eyes on EB, we often use humor to make a point—but this time, we’re serious. Well, mostly. Because it needs to be said:

Mayor, please stop strolling through the parks. For your own safety.

There have been confirmed cases of rabies in the area. And while the township continues to promote its beautiful, well-maintained parks, they’ve also quietly avoided addressing the rise in feral animal activity—especially the kind that comes with teeth and a little foam at the mouth.

The town has a policy problem. It’s made TNR (Trap, Neuter, Return) difficult, and now we’re seeing the results. The feral cat population is growing, unvaccinated, and clearly not thrilled about municipal foot traffic. Residents have started reporting issues to local animal groups instead of the township—not because they want to, but because they have to.

And that brings us to the mayor’s park strolls. We get it. You love the outdoors. You want to be visible, accessible, and in tune with the community. But until the rabies issue is taken seriously and the town adopts a humane, functional approach to animal control, we strongly suggest those walks happen somewhere safer. Like a treadmill. Or maybe around the municipal building. We hear the squirrels there are unionized and very polite.

We’re not poking fun. We’re concerned.

This is a real issue that deserves real attention—before someone gets hurt.

So again, Mayor: Eyes on EB respectfully recommends you sit this one out. At least until the cats are cool with sharing the swing set.

Stephen Daniel Rants to Eyes on EB—Because It’s Safer Than Dealing with “Citizen of Earth”

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This morning, Rob W from Eyes on EB woke up to what can only be described as a sidewalk-length scroll of messages from local resident Stephen Daniel. It was passionate. It was informative. It was deeply concerned about tree roots—and maybe just a little bit petty.

Stephen, who prefers to air his grievances to Eyes on EB instead of risking an online run-in with East Brunswick’s anti-Israel Town Council antagonist known as Citizen of Earth, had some things to get off his chest.

Apparently, he’s already shelled out thousands of dollars to repair his sidewalks. Why? Because the township’s trees in Colonial Oaks were planted in poor soil. According to Stephen, the area’s clay-based ground forces tree roots to grow shallow, which means they creep up, crack concrete, and become trip hazards. The town may trim the roots and maintain the trees, but sidewalk repairs fall 100% on the homeowner.

“I wasn’t forced,” Stephen wrote. “They were already dug up. But it’s still the homeowner’s responsibility.”

He also noted that when roots are cut, trees sprout from the base—a sign of distress. His message came with a fair warning: if the township tries to replant, he’s digging them up himself. No hesitation.

Stephen’s not the only one feeling root rage. He says most of his neighbors have replaced their sidewalks too—some voluntarily, some after pressure from the town. But now, in what feels like a slap in the face, the township is coming around planting free trees right next to newly fixed sidewalks.

“It’s irresponsible to replant trees where the sidewalks were messed up from trees.”

Stephen even cited his own backyard maple as an example. Exposed roots, terrible soil, and lingering frustration.

“When we did our flood abatement stuff, I really saw how bad the soil is.”

By the end of the message marathon, Stephen started to drift into other areas—mentioning a clear-cut forest for the new fields and that the tree farm on Fern Road is about to become a development.

But don’t worry—we’re saving that part of the saga for another day.

For now, Stephen Daniel remains Eyes on EB’s most passionate sidewalk correspondent. And honestly? He’s probably not wrong.

Another Rabid Cat in East Brunswick: How Many More Warnings Do We Need?

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This is not alarmist. This is a fact: a rabid cat has just been found in East Brunswick near Riva Avenue and Ved Mandir Drive. It’s the second confirmed rabid animal in Middlesex County this year—and the first confirmed case in our town for 2025.

What makes this alarming isn’t just the public health risk—it’s the inaction from our township. East Brunswick is still operating under outdated ordinances that make TNR (Trap-Neuter-Return) illegal. And that’s not just bad policy. It’s dangerous.

We now have a TNR Reimbursement Program—but that’s not the same as a legal ordinance. And make no mistake: without a TNR ordinance, this community will continue to be exposed to avoidable public health threats.

Rabies Is a Wake-Up Call

The Middlesex County Office of Health Services has been clear: rabies is a serious, highly transmissible virus. Cats, dogs, skunks, raccoons, and bats are the most common carriers. But only TNR ensures that outdoor cats are trapped, neutered, vaccinated, and returned—safe and sterile.

TNR includes rabies vaccinations. TNR reduces the outdoor cat population. TNR protects both animals and people. So why is our township still dragging its feet?

This Isn’t Just About Cats. It’s About Us.

By not legalizing TNR, the township sends a message: public health is not a priority. Humane practices are not a priority. Residents who volunteer time and money to control the cat population are not a priority.

And this silence is growing louder with every advisory. Every rabid animal found. Every opportunity missed.

This administration has had time. They’ve had data. They’ve had community support. And still—no TNR ordinance.

It’s Time to Act

The longer East Brunswick delays, the greater the risk to our pets, our children, and our community. Let this be the last advisory that ends in silence.

Email your town officials. Demand that they update the municipal code. Ask them why they are still opposing the only humane, scientifically proven way to manage community cats and prevent rabies outbreaks.

TNR is not a fringe idea. It’s practiced across New Jersey. It’s supported by veterinarians, rescue groups, and health experts.

We don’t need another advisory. We need action.

Imagine East Brunswick: A Second Chance for Everyone

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Imagine unblocking everyone.
Not just online — but in your heart.

Imagine waking up tomorrow and deciding that the old grudge doesn’t get to run the show anymore. That the argument you had in a Facebook comment section in 2016 doesn’t have to define your relationship with someone forever. That maybe — just maybe — the people you once called “crazy,” “selfish,” or “stupid” were just people having a bad day. Or a bad decade.

Imagine if we all took a breath.
If we all stopped assuming the worst.
If we all stopped trying to “own” each other online.

Now pause and really think: What if we all unblocked each other? Not just on socials, but in real life. Gave people space to say: “Yeah, I was wrong then. But I’ve learned. Can we try again?”

Wouldn’t that be something?

What if, instead of seeing every disagreement as a war to be won, we saw it as a bridge to be built? What if that one neighbor you can’t stand actually had something to teach you? What if your old coworker, the one who voted differently, donated to the same GoFundMe you did — and just never told you?

What if the people who once pissed you off…
…turned out to be more like you than you thought?

The last 10 years have been loud. Heated.
Families torn apart by politics.
Friendships dissolved by elections.
Block buttons hit like fly swatters.

But maybe the next 10 years don’t have to be.

Imagine an East Brunswick where people say:
“I don’t agree with you, but I’ll sit with you.”
“We see things differently, but I still see you as human.”
“I’m not here to win — I’m here to understand.”

Maybe it won’t be perfect. Maybe some people won’t want to come to the table. But maybe others will surprise you. And maybe one olive branch, one unblocked number, one cup of coffee could start something way bigger than either side expected.

No hashtags.
No speeches.
Just quiet reconnection.

Because healing doesn’t go viral.
But it might go local.

And it starts with you.