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East Brunswick Weekend Sports Recap: Big wins, hard lessons, and a lot of grit

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Some weekends tell you everything about a program’s heartbeat. This one had it all for East Brunswick—clean sweeps, highlight-reel bursts, marathon efforts that ended in deadlock, and a couple of results that will sting just enough to sharpen the next practice. From Monday through Saturday, EB teams stacked minutes, played for each other, and showed the kind of resilience that tends to matter when the weather turns cold and the brackets come out.

Girls Tennis: A sweep, then a street fight

On Monday, Sept. 29, the Bears walked into Woodbridge Magnet with businesslike focus and walked out with a perfect 5–0. Stacy Arkhipova set the tone at first singles, moving the ball corner to corner and closing 6–3, 6–4. Behind her, Arya Joshi’s pace was too much in a 6–2, 6–1 win, and Kellyanne Mossi slammed the door 6–0, 6–0. The doubles pairs were crisp and ruthless: Andrea Baraian with Kelsey Zhao 6–1, 6–0, and Aria Kapadia with Kaylynn Mossi 6–2, 6–1. It looked like a team peaking.

Two days later at South Brunswick, it turned into a backyard brawl between rivals. EB’s second singles rock, Kellyanne Mossi, blanked her opponent 6–0, 6–0, and the first-doubles duo of Kaitlin Wang and Prisha Patel answered every run with cooler hands at the net to win 6–2, 6–4. South Brunswick found two singles points and second doubles to edge it 3–2, but this felt less like a setback and more like a bookmark—one these teams may revisit when the stakes are bigger.

Girls Soccer: Floodgates open, then a reality check

Tuesday at JP Stevens started like a thunderclap. Thirty-seven seconds in, Valeria Fernandes buried the opener off a feed from Jacqueline Goldovsky, and EB never stepped off the gas. Goldovsky authored a conductor’s performance—two goals and an assist—while Samantha Baker threaded passes all over the park, finishing with a goal and two helpers. Add tallies from Zoey Aleixo, Madeline Docherty, and Lauren Baker, and EB bagged seven with 21 shots on frame to win 7–1. It was joyful, quick-touch soccer.

Saturday against Monroe was the other side of the sport’s coin. Monroe’s Avery Grossman found seams where none seemed to exist and finished four times, including a first-half hat trick. EB put eight shots on goal and kept probing, but the final ball never quite landed in the spots it did midweek. Call it a measuring-stick morning. The good news: EB has already shown how it responds—by scoring in waves and playing brave.

Boys Soccer: Late surge one night, tight margins the next

Metuchen on Tuesday was a “don’t blink” second half. After a scoreless opening 40, EB punched three in the final period—Giovanny Sousa, Sebastian Vargas, and Andrew Lima—each fed by a different teammate (Sean Li, Lucas Henriques, and Luke Negron). Ten shots on target to eight told the story of pressure applied until the wall cracked, a 3–1 win earned the hard way.

Four days later at Monroe’s showcase, Robbinsville nicked one in each half and managed the tempo just enough to keep EB chasing. The Bears generated six shots on goal and kept the ball in dangerous areas late, but it finished 2–0. These are the nights that tighten a spine. The chances were there; the finishing touch is coming.

Field Hockey: A gut-check draw, then a lesson in volume

Wednesday’s trip to Westfield was all toughness and poise. Down 1–0 at half, EB answered in the third through Arianna DeMaio, then traded fourth-quarter punches—Julia Rose equalized after Westfield briefly went ahead—before overtime solved nothing in a 2–2 draw. The telling stat lived at the endline: EB earned 15 corners to Westfield’s 8 and out-shot them on goal 13–7. That’s a team imposing itself.

Saturday against Montclair was a different rhythm. The Mounties poured in chances, and goalkeeper Ella Balsamo turned away 19 shots while Rachel Gerould broke through for EB. Montclair’s finishing was clinical in an 8–1 final, but there’s value in facing that kind of pace now. Corners, outlets, and first touches get sharper after mornings like this.

Football: Trading blows until the fourth

Friday night under the lights, Hunterdon Central struck first on a 25-yard toss and then found a back-breaking 41-yard connection out of halftime. EB answered with its best stretch in the third, but a fourth-quarter pick-six flipped the field and the momentum, and HC closed it out 28–7. The tape will show sections of complementary football and long spells of defensive effort that kept things within reach. Clean up a couple of explosive plays and it looks different.

Girls Volleyball: Two matches, plenty of fight

Saturday’s tri-style slate was a test of resilience. Against Madison, EB split the first two sets—21–25 in the second after pushing 20–25 in the opener—before Madison’s attack leaned on Sophia Christoffers (15 kills) to take the third, 25–17. Rolling straight into Pinelands, EB hung point-for-point in both sets (20–25, 21–25) before the Wildcats closed the door with tough serving and steady back-row play. The margins were thin, the improvements obvious.


What it all means

This week read like a season in miniature. Tennis proved it can sweep and scrap. Girls soccer flashed firepower and got a reminder about the details that win October games. Boys soccer showed its second-half bite. Field hockey owned the circle midweek and swallowed a hard lesson on Saturday that will pay off in GMC play. Football found stretches to build on. Volleyball kept swinging in two tight sets against a powerhouse program.

The scoreboard matters, but the through-line is clearer: EB teams are building habits that travel—pace, pressure, and the willingness to respond. That’s what lasts when the lights get brighter.

This is Our Fight Song: A Love Letter to Strength, Survival, and the Gift of Time

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This is Our Fight Song: A Love Letter to Strength, Survival, and the Gift of Time

Exactly ten years ago, I was in the middle of my own breast cancer journey. At the time, I was a single mother with three-year-old twins—my whole world wrapped up in those two tiny bodies—when I heard the words no one ever wants to hear: You have cancer.

At first, it seemed manageable. A lumpectomy and radiation, they told me. Easy, right? Not….so…. fast….. After surgery, the plan shifted. Suddenly, I was facing chemotherapy, another surgery, radiation, and ultimately a year of my life that would strip away my naïveté and permanently change the way I view time, love, strength and resilience. 

It was not just a medical journey—it was a human one.

The Village I Didn’t Expect

Cancer taught me lessons of epic proportions, especially about family and friendship. Some people I thought would stand firmly by my side quietly stepped away. And others—the unexpected ones—showed up with strength, compassion, and loyalty I could never have predicted. Those who stepped forward are etched into my life and heart forever.  Those who didn’t step up—it stung at first, but in time I realized it was a powerful lesson and one I did not take personally. That hurt became one of the greatest teachers, shaping me in ways that continue to help me today. For some people, cancer is unbearable to talk about—it forces them to confront their own mortality, and that fear can be paralyzing. It takes me back to the scene in St. Elmo’s Fire where the family sits around the dinner table and the word cancer is spoken in a hushed whisper, as if it were a curse.  

The Caregivers

We don’t talk enough about caregivers. Everyone focuses on the patient, but the truth is, caregivers carry a weight that is just as heavy. My family—my fiercest protectors—made survival possible. They carried me when I couldn’t carry myself. They don’t get nearly enough credit. If you know someone caring for a loved one with cancer, please, check in on them. They need as much support as the patient.

The Doctors & Nurses

To the doctors, all doctors, but my amazing team in particular: thank you for your knowledge, your steady hands, and your tireless pursuit of healing. You make decisions every day that balance science and compassion, and in doing so, you give patients like me another chance at life.

To the nurses: Nurses are a special breed, but oncology nurses are a gift beyond measure. You are the quiet heroes who often go unnoticed. You are the ones who held my hand when fear took over, who spoke gently when I needed reassurance, who allowed me my quiet time on those long Saturdays by myself, with my coloring book and my IPad. You didn’t just treat my body—you cared for my spirit. You reminded me that I wasn’t just a diagnosis, I was a person worth fighting for.

Life After “No Evidence of Disease”

There is a phrase survivors know well: NED—No Evidence of Disease. On paper, that’s the best outcome you can hope for. But cancer never really leaves. It lingers in the quiet corners of your mind. It creeps up in the most inopportune moments—a routine doctor’s visit, an unexplained ache, an anniversary date—and suddenly you’re back in that chair, waiting for results, holding your breath. Some call it PTSD. I just call it part of survivorship.

But cancer also gave me something unexpected: a suit of armor.

The Armor and the Perspective

When you face your own mortality head on, you learn quickly what is worth your energy and what isn’t. Petty people and arguments, trivial stressors, wasted time—they no longer hold power. What does matter becomes crystal clear: love, laughter, kindness, presence and most importantly, FAMILY.

Time is the greatest equalizer. It doesn’t matter how much money you have, what your background is, the color of your skin, who you love, or who you pray to. Time waits for no one. And cancer doesn’t discriminate. 

For the Angels and the Fighters Yet to Come

This love letter would not be complete without remembering those we’ve lost along the way—the moms who won’t get to see their children grow up, the friends who fought valiantly not just for themselves but for others, and who now fight from above as angels watching over us. Their courage continues to light our path.

And to those who will face this fight in the future: know that you are not alone. Although this is a club no one chooses to join, it is a club that welcomes with arms wide open. There is room here for everyone to show up as they are, to take what they need, and to give back when and how they can. The strength of this community is immeasurable.

The Soundtrack of Survival

Ten years ago, as I was moving through this journey, a song was released into the world—Rachel Platten’s Fight Song. It became my anthem. I played it on repeat, letting its lyrics propel me forward when my body was tired and my spirit felt heavy. That song gave me strength I didn’t know I had. And now, as it is being re-released, I can’t help but feel the full circle moment—because it reminds me of the resilience I built, the people who carried me, and the truth that we all have more fight in us than we realize.

This Love Letter

So today, this love letter is to the survivors, the fighters, the caregivers, and the angels. Every moment is a gift. Every breath is borrowed time. Let’s use it wisely. Let’s honor it fiercely.

And let’s never forget that in the face of fragility, love and human connection remain the strongest medicines of all.

💗 A Call to Action for Breast Cancer Awareness Month
This October, let’s turn awareness into action. Schedule your mammogram. Remind a friend to schedule theirs. Check in on a caregiver. Wear pink not just as a symbol, but as a promise—to keep fighting for research, support, and early detection.

And when you hear Fight Song again, let it be a reminder: you are not alone, your fight matters, and together, we are stronger than cancer.

The Trucks of Sunburst: A Neighborhood’s Breaking Point

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If you live on Sunburst Drive, you don’t need a clock to tell you the time. The roar of tractor trailers barreling down the street does that for you. Sometimes it’s 5:06 in the morning, sometimes it’s just after midnight, sometimes it’s every 20 minutes through the night. For residents, it has become the soundtrack of their lives — and they’ve had enough.

For months, neighbors have been writing to the mayor, town council, and township administrator Joseph Criscuolo, pleading for help. Their emails are raw, sometimes written in the middle of the night after being jolted awake by air brakes and diesel engines.

One message sent at dawn begins simply:

“Good early morning. Please advise as to why there are tractor trailers thundering by on Sunburst Drive disturbing the peace at 5:06 AM and what the town is doing to stop this. We have really had enough of these reckless trucks now.”

Another lists times — 9:27, 9:59, 10:36, 11:44, 11:57 — each one a reminder of another truck screaming past. Residents attach photos. They name the companies: Salson Logistics, Landstar, Talay Trailer, Lazy Tigers. The pattern is the same: the trucks are heavy, they are loud, they are speeding, and they are supposed to be nowhere near this street. The posted weight limit is 4 tons.

Years of Complaints, Little Relief

The frustration has grown into anger.

  • “What do taxes pay for???”

  • “Years of complaints, nothing done!!!”

  • “Someone is going to get killed!!!”

Some residents no longer write just about trucks — they write about leadership. Their subject lines and sign-offs now call for firing officials and even impeaching the mayor. It is the language of a community that feels ignored.

The Township’s Response

On the other side, Township Administrator Joseph Criscuolo has been clear: enforcement is up to the police.

“The Police Department is the proper authority to enforce speeding and weight limit and other violations. The mayor nor township council can write summons,” Criscuolo wrote in one reply.

He pointed to East Brunswick Police Chief Frank LoSacco, who he says has repeatedly offered to meet with residents from Sunburst, though few have taken him up on it.

A Neighborhood vs. the Noise

What these emails reveal is more than a fight about trucks. They capture the exhaustion of a neighborhood that feels forgotten. It’s not just noise and rattling windows. It’s the belief that no matter how many reports they file, how many photos they send, or how many times they say “enough is enough,” nothing changes. Some believe that the reason why they are ignored because they aren’t on the “rich” side of town.

Every night, the trucks return. Every morning, another email gets fired off.

And so the question lingers in inboxes across East Brunswick: How many more trucks have to thunder down Sunburst before something finally gives?

Meet The Femme Voice: Two EB Seniors Turning Empathy Into Action

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In a town that’s no stranger to big dreams and even bigger heart, two East Brunswick High School seniors are showing what it means to act on both.

Snigdha and Riya, co-founders of The Femme Voice, are not just students — they are changemakers, curriculum designers, nonprofit founders, and most importantly, girls who saw a need and stepped up. What started in 2022 as a passion project has grown into a youth-led organization with a global impact — from East Brunswick classrooms to rural India, and possibly college campuses across the country in the years to come.

We sat down with Snigdha and Riya in our latest Voices of EB interview, filmed on a quiet Sunday afternoon at the East Brunswick Public Library pond — and walked away completely inspired.


A Mission Rooted in Equity

When asked what lit the spark, Snigdha didn’t hesitate.

“So many women in my family didn’t have access to education… not because of money, but simply because of their gender.”

That realization became personal. And personal became action.

Snigdha and Riya turned their frustrations into focus, creating a nonprofit aimed at empowering young women through STEM education and menstrual health equity. And they weren’t just talking about it — they were building programs, rallying community support, and reaching beyond borders.


From Movies to Movement: Riya’s Why

For Riya, the journey started with a story she couldn’t forget — a film about a girl in India who couldn’t attend school because her family didn’t have a bike to get her there.

“That hit me. It made me realize how small barriers can block entire futures.”

So what did Riya and Snigdha do? They raised money for 15 bikes — and delivered them directly to girls in India, so they could travel to school and continue their education. That’s not a social post. That’s real-world impact from two high school students in Central Jersey.


STEM, Workshops, and the Strix Partnership

The Femme Voice team saw another major issue: STEM programs were often expensive or inaccessible for many local students. So they did something about it.

They partnered with Strix, a local East Brunswick educational platform, to host a free week-long STEM workshop — creating the curriculum themselves, with help from educators and professionals in engineering and business. They taught hands-on projects, used differentiated instruction, and found that their students — even during summer break — were excited to be there.

“We had marshmallows, toothpicks, games, challenges — once the kids got going, they were all in,” said Snigdha.

They even ended the workshop with an affordable fundraiser selling stationery, building both confidence and sustainability into the model.


Not Just STEM — Menstrual Equity and Financial Literacy

The Femme Voice’s mission expanded as they discovered more unmet needs. They’ve:

  • Hosted local fundraisers and donation drives for menstrual hygiene products

  • Collected school supplies for shelters and children in need

  • Organized financial literacy bootcamps for youth at the East Brunswick Public Library — covering topics like budgeting, investing, and 401(k)s

Their thinking? STEM is important, but economic empowerment is the other half of the equation.

“We’re first-gen,” Riya explained. “Our parents taught us these things, but many kids here don’t have that guidance. We want to close that gap too.”


From East Brunswick to India — and Beyond

The Femme Voice already has two chapters in Virginia and New York. They’re in early conversations to launch a presence in India. And as they look toward college, both Snigdha and Riya are clear: this isn’t ending at graduation.

Their five-year plan? Start college chapters, apply for grants, partner with large companies like Google or Microsoft, and continue scaling their work.

They’ve raised over $4,500 already. And they’re just getting started.


How You Can Help

The Femme Voice is open to all — not just the Indian community, not just girls. If you’re passionate about education, equity, or just want to support students making a difference, here’s what you can do:

📲 Follow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefemmevoice/
📦 Donate school supplies or menstrual products (keep an eye out for future box locations)
🌯 Support upcoming fundraisers — like their Dine-to-Donate with Chipotle (date TBD)
💰 Help them reach their next $3,000–$4,000 goal to fund future workshops and donations

And most importantly — spread the word.


Final Thoughts

Snigdha and Riya are not waiting to be asked. They are leading. From local fundraisers to cross-continental workshops, The Femme Voice is a reminder that real change doesn’t require a title, a budget, or a degree — just heart, drive, and action.

To quote them directly:

“If you see a need in your community, do your best to fulfill it.”

We couldn’t agree more.

🎙️ Watch the full Voices of EB interview with The Femme Voice now — only on Eyes on EB.
📍Filmed at the East Brunswick Public Library
📲 Follow: https://www.instagram.com/thefemmevoice/

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East Brunswick Board of Education Candidates Face Questions on High School, Redistricting, Budgets, and Trust

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The East Brunswick Board of Education forum this week was not a debate but a window into a district wrestling with its future. Nine candidates addressed the community in an auditorium filled with residents, while a ninth, Mary Petersen, was absent and did not provide a biography for the program. Over the course of the evening, the discussion ranged from the trailers at Churchill and the unresolved question of a new high school to redistricting, special education, mental health, and teacher morale.

Opening Priorities

The candidates were first asked to define their short and long-term goals. Dr. Anna Braun, who filled a board vacancy less than a year ago, immediately pressed the high school issue. “I am extraordinarily disappointed that we do not seem to have a goal for what is going to happen with the high school,” she said. “When I sat here a year ago, that was the hot button topic. What are we going to do about the TCUs? I have not heard anything. That is one of the first things we need to address, and we need to see movement with our new superintendent.”

Marianne Tanious, who also joined the board by filling a vacancy, emphasized planning and communication. “I am all about setting people up for success, including our staff, our students, and especially our superintendent who is going to be leading this organization,” she said. “That would include our budget, which is coming up sooner rather than later. Long term goals would include curriculum and improving our test scores. As far as keeping the public informed, I make every effort to ensure there is discussion in public even when I already know the answer, so the community understands why we are driving decisions like we are.”

Jeff Winston, a former board member with more than five years of service in earlier terms, said accountability was overdue. “Our job is to assure that the district runs well, not to run the district,” he said. “If our superintendent truly believes a high school is a priority, my goal is to have our superintendent list the five top priorities they want to accomplish. Those priorities should be published with deliverable dates and accountability. The community deserves that clarity, and it has been absent for at least a decade.”

Neal Shah echoed the need for benchmarks. “We need more than polished presentations and lofty mission statements,” he said. “We need clear, measurable goals tied to outcomes, not just optics. Benchmarks, deadlines, accountability. That is how leadership should be held to the same standards we ask of our students.”

The Trailers at Churchill and the High School Debate

Few issues generated more intensity than the trailers at Churchill Junior High and the question of how to address overcrowding at the high school.

Marianne Tanious cut straight to the point. “Why are the trailers going to Churchill? Why don’t they go to the high school? It seems like that would solve a multitude of problems,” she said. “Our test scores for ninth graders are not being included in the high school, and that drags down our ratings. We need a new high school, but we also need to reassess what that cost looks like. The original numbers were a wish list. What do we actually need, and how do we make it realistic?”

Jeff Winston said the problem reflected years of failed leadership. “Next year will be the fifth year with no plan, and that means the state will start fining us,” he said. “This was poor leadership and poor management. Trailers were predicated on a high school opening this year, when interest rates were far lower. We went from a two hundred and fifty million dollar proposal to a five hundred million dollar proposal. That is what happens when you have a board that does not give a superintendent goals and deadlines.”

Dr. Anna Braun agreed, calling the trailers and architectural work a “ten million dollar investment right down the tubes.” She pressed for accountability. “As a teacher, if I did not perform the goals set for me, I would have been out,” she said. “That is the way we need to move forward with our new superintendent. This cannot continue.”

Heather Guas, the current board president, and Liwu Hong, the current vice president, defended their roles in seeking consensus. Guas suggested the TCUs could be repurposed as a special education academy that could draw tuition revenue from neighboring towns. “People move here for our special education,” she said. “Why not use that to our advantage and generate revenue?”

But for some residents, the fact that Guas has served for six years, including being the vice president and the past year as president, raises questions about why so little progress has been made. The same is true of Hong, who has been on the board for three full terms and now serves as vice president. Their experience brings stability and knowledge of process, but many in the community are frustrated that pressing issues remain unresolved despite their leadership roles.

Redistricting

The candidates then addressed elementary redistricting, which has not occurred in East Brunswick since the early 1980s.

Marianne Tanious spoke about equity. “We need actual numbers, not maps drawn without data,” she said. “Some schools are not resourced equally. Not every school has a gym. Why is it fair that some kids have a school with no gym while others do?”

Maria Mueller, the youngest candidate at the table and a recent graduate of East Brunswick High School, recalled her own experience. “When I attended Hammarskjold, a lot of students compared the different elementary schools, and they noticed that some had more resources and were considered better than others,” she said. “That should not happen. Every elementary school should have equitable resources, and every teacher should have what they need.”

Jeff Winston cautioned the audience not to expect quick satisfaction. “Redistricting is a five year problem before it straightens itself out,” he said. “We have not done this since the mid 1980s. Communication and cooperation are not there, and that has to be fixed before we can make this easier on families.”

Dr. Anna Braun offered a reminder of history. “In 1983 the board suggested closing Lawrence Brook, Memorial, and Irwin,” she said. “Parents rose up and said no, and they were right. Eventually Irwin was closed, and then three years later it had to be reopened. What a waste of money and time. We cannot repeat that.”

Special Education

On special education, candidates spoke from both professional and personal experience.

Heather Guas, a veteran special education teacher, emphasized keeping students in district when possible. “We need to keep our students in their neighborhood schools with their peers whenever possible,” she said. “That is important not only for cost, because out of district placements are extremely expensive, but also for the emotional and social wellbeing of our students.”

Jeff Winston shared the difficulty of advocating for a child with an IEP when decisions felt driven by budget. “There is nothing more degrading than having to fight for your child when you know the conversation is being led by budget rather than need,” he said.

Dr. Anna Braun recalled her own child’s challenges. “His diagnosis was not even available when he was young, and he went through his school career without proper recognition or support,” she said. “We need to provide early interventions and make sure out of district placements are available when appropriate, with the goal of bringing students back when they are ready.”

Antoinette Evola added, “Parents need to know they are heard. Too many parents feel ignored or like they are being annoying when they advocate for their child. That cannot continue.”

The Budget

Budget pressures dominated the evening. With state aid cuts continuing to reduce funding, the candidates were asked how they would balance competing priorities.

Jeff Winston pointed to inefficiency. “You can either decrease costs or increase revenue. Where is the creativity? Why are we not working with neighboring towns to buy basic supplies together and save money? Why are we not seeking sponsorships for our facilities?” he asked. “The accounting department is antiquated. This is solvable with more discipline and vision.”

Dr. Anna Braun recalled being handed a list of seventy seven cuts with no supporting data. “I asked how many teachers were being cut, and I was told we did not have those numbers,” she said. “How is that possible? Decisions of this magnitude require data, transparency, and foresight.”

Marianne Tanious said the problem was avoidable. “When the S2 formula was introduced in 2018, we knew cuts would be phased in by 2025. If you know a storm is coming, you should start planning for it. This was not properly planned for,” she said.

Neal Shah agreed that budget planning should not be an annual panic. “There should be institutional knowledge and preparation so that families are not surprised each spring,” he said.

Mental Health

Mental health was another recurring theme. Maria Mueller said students should be taught that it is acceptable to make mistakes and learn at different paces. “We need to destigmatize mental health and start those conversations in elementary school,” she said.

Jeff Winston argued that guidance counselors should be proactive. “Guidance counselors should be asking every student how they are doing, how things are at home, and what can be done to help. That was rejected in the past, and it was a mistake.”

Dr. Anna Braun criticized the district for cutting the very programs that help. “We worry about students’ mental health, yet we were ready to cut arts and sports, which are the very things that give many of them belonging and purpose,” she said.

Teacher Morale

The forum closed with a question on teacher morale and retention.

Antoinette Evola said teachers need job security. “Stop trying to fire them every single budget crisis,” she said. “Teachers should not wake up in September wondering if they will have a job in June. That is the number one issue.”

Jeff Winston argued that morale comes down to culture. “People do not quit their jobs. They quit their bosses,” he said. “We need to create an environment where teachers want to come to work and where they are recognized and respected.”

Marianne Tanious said teachers need autonomy. “Education is not one size fits all. Teachers know what their students need, and we should stop dictating every step. That is how morale is crushed,” she said.

Dr. Anna Braun described what she has seen as alarming. “Never in my career did I see so many tenured teachers leaving. That tells you something is very wrong,” she said.

Closing

By the end of the evening, voters heard both fresh ideas and familiar frustrations. Newer board members like Marianne Tanious and Dr. Anna Braun highlighted transparency and accountability. Longtime figures like Heather Guas and Liwu Hong pointed to their experience, though their tenure left some residents questioning why problems remain unresolved. Jeff Winston leaned on his past board service to press for sharper accountability and creative budgeting. Neal Shah called for measurable goals and stronger planning. Antoinette Evola focused on fiscal discipline and protecting teachers from recurring job insecurity. Maria Mueller, the youngest on stage, framed her answers through the lens of a recent student’s experience. Kimberly Conetta emphasized communication and collaboration with families. One candidate, Mary Petersen, did not attend and did not submit a biography to the program.

In November, the voters of East Brunswick will decide whether experience or change is the better answer for a district that can no longer afford to postpone the hardest choices.

Mission Impossible: East Brunswick Traffic Edition

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We didn’t want to get into this again. Really, we didn’t. But when a single Facebook post in the East Brunswick Residents Group racks up almost 200 comments in less than a day, ignoring it would mean ignoring the pulse of the community. And this one hit a nerve — or, depending on your commute, maybe every nerve at once.

It all began when Samira R., a top contributor, posted a simple complaint that spoke volumes:

“Impossible mission to get into and out of East Brunswick this week! 😐”

That one line, part exasperation and part resignation, unlocked a flood of responses. Within minutes, the group lit up like brake lights on Ryders Lane at 5:15 p.m.


The Agreeing Chorus

First came the quick agreements — the “me too” comments that show just how widespread the frustration is.

Gargi C. chimed in: “Totally agree!! 👍”
Kristin M. echoed her: “Seriously!!”
Mark E. cut straight to the chase: “Not one road is open.”

It didn’t take long for others to pile on. Ujwala K. groaned: “So true! 😩” while Meredith S. declared, “It’s a nightmare!!” The collective nodding heads were practically visible through the screen.


The Details that Sting

But then came the longer comments — the kind that move past a quick “ugh” and spell out exactly what’s driving people mad.

Maria M. offered a thoughtful critique:

“They should extend green lights in a few places used for detours. Short green lights and no left turn arrows are a nightmare. They want more people, but don’t update traffic lights. Congestion is like a fall flu.”

Her metaphor stuck, and others agreed. Ian Z. replied, “Maria M. agree,” while Nic K. added, “That is true … light timers should have been a consideration.”


When Patience Runs Out

Of course, not everyone kept it measured. Some comments carried the raw edge of road-rage energy.

Belle B. didn’t sugarcoat it:

“Yeah and if the idiots would follow driving laws, we all might get home safely.”

Meanwhile, commuters dropped their horror stories. Lucy V. wrote:

“45 minutes from PABT to Tower Center today, then another 50 minutes to get through East Brunswick!”

Others tied traffic directly to taxes and overdevelopment. Jill M. vented:

“Ridiculous especially with these taxes we pay .. these roads & closures are the worst & then with all these apt complexs completed wheres those people going .. out on the roads .. We are out of room..”


One Name Keeps Coming Up

And then came the political angle. One resident, Vee V., aimed squarely at town leadership:

“Mayor C., I’m getting sick of it! Over building, high taxes and nothing but traffic jams. 🤬”

Her comment set off its own mini-thread. Rachel K. responded: “Unfortunately most are county roads anyways.” But Vee wasn’t convinced:

“I’ve lived here for 20 yrs and it’s never been this awful. 20 min commute is now an hour and 45 min of it trying to get to the turnpike from Summerhill Rd. 🤬”

Pamela A. backed her up, adding her own longevity card:

“Been here over 40 yrs. They just keep building too much, shouldn’t be buildings up until roads are widened to accommodate, look at Cranbury Road — no excuse — they just keep on building.”

And Vee doubled down:

“Just awful and they have the audacity to raise our taxes. Cut programs, give tax breaks to builders, a 40mm ice skating rink. Did we even vote for this? Awful.”

Eric S. chimed in too: “You forgot closing and eliminating roads and not widening roads that needed.”

It became less a conversation about one bad traffic week and more a referendum on growth, planning, and leadership.


More than Just Time Lost

For some, it wasn’t just about sitting in traffic but what it’s doing to daily life. Mansi G. lamented:

“My work is 20 minutes away and it took me 1.5 hours to reach and coming back both. It’s a nightmare.”

Shana V. shared her morning disaster:

“45 mins from my residence on University to Hammarskjold this morning. Talk about nightmare!!”

She added later:

“It’s the worst I’ve ever seen it. 25 years a resident obviously everything changes with time but this is unbelievable. Takes 10 minutes to get out my driveway on a good day because of course no one wants to stop for a second. It’s insane the backup on this side!”


Everyone’s Got a Story

Others jumped in with their numbers, their minutes, their proof:

  • Carolyn E.: “Getting around town is disastrous! Seems like terrible planning!”

  • Francesca E.: “Took 40 minutes to go 6 miles in EB this morning and this evening it took 35 to go 6 miles home.. I hope all these ‘improvements’ pay it forward and improve EB!”

  • Wayne L.: “Ryders Lane is out of control, the bottle necks start at 1pm now. Used to be a rush hour thing.”

  • Uta B.: “I’m in it 6 days a week, it’s hell! It takes me 45 minutes to go 5 miles.”

  • Toni S.: “Total sht show! This is ridiculous! 🤦🏻‍♀️”*


A Dash of Humor

Even in chaos, East Brunswick finds a way to laugh.

Elliott P. quipped: “Tom Cruise did it.” — drawing a line straight to the “Mission Impossible” franchise.

Marianne T. ran with it: “Almost mission impossible EVERY DAY.”

And Nic K. turned his commute into a glass-half-full moment:

“At this point you just have to find humor in it … I live 5 mins from the gym … takes me 25 right now … but that is 25 minutes without screaming kids! I just crank up the beats and find my detours!”


The Sigh at the End

Still, not everyone believes venting online will make a difference. Brian K. gave a reality check:

“I hope everyone realizes these comments are falling on deaf ears.”

To which Nic K. shot back:

“But not blind eyes and angry thumbs 😝.”


Bigger Than One Bad Week

So here we are again — another viral post, another round of complaints, another community-wide venting session. This one started as frustration over road closures and detours, but it grew into a chorus of concerns about development, leadership, taxes, and quality of life.

We didn’t want to dive into it again. But when nearly 200 residents are trading stories, swapping jokes, and sharing their anger, it tells us something bigger: East Brunswick traffic isn’t just an inconvenience — it’s a symbol of the way people feel about where this town is headed.

Maybe one day the lights will be timed better, the roads will be wider, and the detours fewer. Until then, we’ll keep scrolling, keep commenting, and keep commiserating. Because in East Brunswick, surviving the commute sometimes feels like our own never-ending “Mission Impossible.”


Would you like me to also add a punchy intro image caption/title (like you use for social posts) that teases this blog — something short like “EB’s Mission Impossible Commute: 200 Comments Later”?

BOE Meet the Candidates: One of the Key Moments — Route 18 or Real Leadership?

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At the recent forum, the moderator asked a pressing question that should be on everyone’s mind: How would you attract and retain the high-quality staff that East Brunswick deserves? How would you address low staff morale?

Many candidates gave varying responses, but the contrast between Jeff Winston and Board of Education President Heather Guas could not have been more striking.


Identifying the Real Problem

Jeff Winston didn’t hesitate to address what so many teachers have been saying for years.

“People don’t quit their jobs. They typically quit their bosses,” Winston said.

He pointed to decisions that undermined morale, such as when the business administrator made the rounds removing coffee makers and fans from classrooms. “I think we’ve lost our way,” Winston added.

He shared the story of one teacher who left East Brunswick after years of service, not because of traffic or pay, but due to the anxiety created by the leadership.

“Every time she got an email from HR, the superintendent, or the business administrator, she would have a panic attack, leave the phone on the kitchen table, and her husband would have to open it and then come upstairs to tell her what it said.”

This isn’t a traffic issue. It’s a leadership issue. And Winston’s point was clear: before you can fix a problem, you have to correctly identify it.


The Importance of Listening

Winston emphasized that to retain great teachers, you need to create an environment where they feel respected, supported, and heard. That means more than just talking about culture — it means actually measuring it.

He spoke about the “pulse survey” idea that he and Neal Shah had drafted, urging the district to implement it immediately. A real survey, designed to capture honest staff feedback, would provide insight into what teachers are struggling with and what support they need.

Without data, leaders are guessing. And, in fact, thinking is precisely how we end up with superficial answers that overlook the real problems. If you want to stop attrition, you don’t look at traffic patterns. You examine your own practices, leadership decisions, and the daily climate in your schools.

As Winston put it:

“You can’t come to work scared. Kids can’t come to school with mental health issues and expect to learn. We have to find hope, folks. We’re human beings trying to produce a product of educated children. We have a job to do, not beat people up to get that accomplished.”


The Tone-Deaf Response

And then came the answer from President Heather Guas. Instead of talking about leadership or culture, she shifted the blame to the highway.

“Something that we don’t seem to have any control over is Route 18, which keeps being cited as an actual difficulty for our staff as to why they don’t want to stay here,” Guas said. “So we can’t fix that. Route 18 is what it is. Someday the state will finish with it.”

It’s tone-deaf to suggest that teachers are leaving East Brunswick because of Route 18. Teachers leave when they feel unsupported. Teachers leave when leadership decisions cause stress and hostility. Teachers leave when their morale is ignored.

What makes Guas’s answer even more concerning is that she isn’t just a candidate — she is the current board president and has previously held the same role. If the top leader on the BOE can’t even identify the problem, how can the community expect real solutions?

Blaming a congested roadway instead of addressing the leadership at the top not only misses the mark, but it also reveals a refusal even to acknowledge the real problem.


Leadership vs. Excuses

The difference between the two answers speaks for itself. Winston spoke directly about morale, leadership, and the need to create an environment where teachers feel valued and safe. He identified the problem.

Guas, the president of the Board of Education, pointed to traffic.

The takeaway is simple: until the leadership of East Brunswick stops making excuses and starts identifying and addressing the real problems, teachers will continue to leave. And if we keep losing great teachers, our students — and the community — pay the price.

Love Letter to Commuters

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By Rachel B.

This is a love letter to all the commuters out there.

Let’s talk about the HOV lane for a moment. I try to follow the rules, I stay out of it when it’s just me, and yet I watch car after car cruise past with one person inside. Today I saw two people…and a dog. Does that count as the third passenger? Someone help a girl out!

Then there’s rain. Why is it that one drop sends drivers into chaos? Headlights off when they should be on. Wipers stuck on full blast—or worse, still swiping across a dry windshield after the storm is long gone. And don’t even get me started on the turnpike daredevils at 6 a.m., weaving through traffic at 100 mph. No one wants to get to work that badly—unless they’ve just stolen the car.

Here’s the thing: I actually enjoy my commute. Two hours a day when I have no choice but to stop and do something for myself. I can catch up on podcasts, call a friend, sing in silence, do a little car karaoke, starring in my own version of The Voice. (Spoiler: I always win. Golden buzzer every time.)

My Spotify playlist is a diary of my life. One day I’m lost in the 60s, the next in the 70s, a little 80’s and 90’s to shake things up, or belting out modern hits. With Bluetooth and CarPlay, no one knows if I’m singing or having a heated debate. And I like it that way.

Of course, commuting comes with its villains: bus drivers who cut you off without fear, digital road signs that state the obvious (“Snow ahead!”—thanks, I noticed, it’s a whiteout), and people who just can’t figure out the zipper merge. Regular commuters know the rules and etiquette of the road, but every day a few rogue drivers ruin the flow.

After nearly three decades on the road, I’ve seen it all:

  • The nose pickers.

  • The drivers practically kissing their steering wheels.

  • The ones who flash their hazards and speed up the shoulder like the rules don’t apply to them.

Sometimes I just study faces in traffic and wonder if they’re thinking the same things I am: Is this really what we’ve been doing for years? For a while, my commute even became a metaphor—I’d pass a chicken truck every day on my way to a job that made me miserable. Both of us, headed to slaughter. But things change. The chicken truck is gone, I left that school, and now the drive feels different: full of reflection, gratitude, and even joy.

And here’s where credit is due: shout-out to the New Jersey Turnpike Authority. Truly. For the most part, my commute is smooth sailing, and when bad weather hits, those crews are out there working tirelessly to keep the roads safe for the rest of us. From one commuter’s heart—thank you.

Even on the craziest days, I still get to watch the sunrise kiss the Statue of Liberty, to see New York City wake up, to feel the magic of a world moving before most people have even had their coffee.

So this love letter is to you, fellow commuters—and to the folks who keep our roads safe—the singers, the dreamers, the rule-followers, the road philosophers. We share something unique every day. The road may be chaotic, but it’s ours.

East Brunswick High School Weekly Sports Roundup

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It was a packed few days for East Brunswick High School athletics, and the Bears delivered across multiple sports with big wins, strong performances, and tough battles. From field hockey dominance to a commanding boys soccer victory today, here’s how the week unfolded.


Field Hockey Stays Hot

The Bears had a strong showing on the turf, beginning with a 5–0 shutout over Monroe on Sept. 25. Julia Rose scored twice in the opening quarter, with assists from Alexa DeRado and Arianna DeMaio, while Rachel Gerould powered in three more to finish with a hat trick. East Brunswick controlled play with 20 shots and 12 corners while holding Monroe to just three chances.

Two days later, EB kept the momentum going with a 3–0 win over Old Bridge on Sept. 27. Carissa Kovarcik got the opener before DeRado and Gerould connected for a goal each. Goalie Ella Balsamo came up clutch with eight saves, sealing a rivalry shutout.


Gymnastics Finds Its Balance

East Brunswick gymnastics picked up its first win of the season, edging Piscataway 94.525–91.100 on Sept. 25. Consistency was the difference: Ellah Levi scored 7.575 on bars and 8.3 on beam, Isabella Wasserman posted an 8.7 on floor, and Alexandra Cooperman topped vault with 8.55.


Volleyball Runs Into Undefeated Knights

The Bears faced undefeated Old Bridge on Sept. 25 and fell in straight sets, 25–12, 25–14. Old Bridge’s Ashley Markle led with nine kills, while setter Maya Lupinski dished out 20 assists. EB battled but couldn’t match the Knights’ firepower.


Girls Soccer Rolls to Two Wins

Girls soccer started the week with a 4–0 shutout of Colonia on Sept. 25. Madeline Docherty, Valeria Fernandes, and Jacqueline Goldovsky all scored before halftime, with Samantha Baker finishing things off in the second half. Goalkeeper Caylin Docherty turned aside six shots for the clean sheet.

On Sept. 27, the offense exploded in a 9–3 win over Woodbridge at Metuchen HS. Goldovsky led the way with four goals and an assist, while Alani Hamm, Hannah Cheraibi, Zoey Aleixo, Valeria Fernandes, and Erika Riggio added scores. The Bears fired 25 shots in a convincing victory.


Football Struggles Against Old Bridge

Facing a tough Knights squad on Sept. 26, East Brunswick fell 48–0. Old Bridge built a 24-point lead in the first quarter behind quarterback Brody Nugent’s two rushing touchdowns and never looked back. EB fought hard but couldn’t slow down a deep and balanced rushing attack.


Boys Soccer Caps Week With Statement Win

Closing out the week in style, East Brunswick boys soccer took down rival South River 4–1 today (Sept. 27). The Bears played with energy from start to finish, dominating possession and spreading the scoring around. B. Lyons, A. Lima, G. Sousa, and S. Vargas each found the net, showing off EB’s depth in attack.

The defensive line held firm, the midfield pushed the pace, and the Bears sent a message with a complete performance.

When the Rams came charging, the Bears answered with claws out. 🐻⚽

The Passing of Assata Shakur and Her East Brunswick Connection

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Assata Shakur, born JoAnne Chesimard, has passed away at the age of 78. Her name is forever tied to East Brunswick, New Jersey, where one of the most infamous events in state history took place more than fifty years ago.


The 1973 Turnpike Shootout in East Brunswick

On May 2, 1973, State Troopers Werner Foerster and James Harper stopped a car on the New Jersey Turnpike near the East Brunswick stretch. The traffic stop, reportedly over a broken taillight, quickly spiraled into a gunfight.

Trooper Foerster was killed in the exchange. Trooper Harper was wounded. Zayd Malik Shakur, one of the passengers, was also killed. Assata Shakur, seated in the front passenger seat, was injured.

In 1977, Shakur was convicted of first-degree murder and related charges. She was sentenced to life in prison. In 1979, she escaped from the Clinton Correctional Facility in New Jersey with the help of outside accomplices. By the mid-1980s she had surfaced in Cuba, where she was granted asylum and lived in exile until her death.


The Impact on East Brunswick

Though the shootout was national news, its setting was unmistakably local. It happened along the Turnpike in East Brunswick, a stretch of road still used by thousands of residents every day.

Longtime East Brunswick resident John Miller recalls the sense of fear in the community at the time: “I was just a kid, but I remember the helicopters and the police presence. People couldn’t believe something like that had happened right here in town.”

Carol Rodriguez, who has lived off Route 18 for decades, added: “Every time I pass that section of the Turnpike, I think of Trooper Foerster. It’s a reminder that even in East Brunswick, history unfolded in ways we didn’t expect.”


Remembering Trooper Werner Foerster

For New Jersey law enforcement, the loss of Trooper Werner Foerster was devastating. His death became a rallying cry for officers across the state, and his name is remembered at memorials honoring fallen troopers.

Retired Middlesex County officer Richard Lawson reflected: “Foerster’s death changed the mindset of policing in New Jersey. Every trooper learned from that day that there is no such thing as a routine stop. East Brunswick was where that lesson was written in blood.”


A Legacy of Division

Beyond East Brunswick, Shakur’s story became symbolic and divisive. To some, she represented a victim of racial injustice and political persecution. To others, she remained a fugitive convicted of killing a police officer. Her decades in Cuba only intensified those debates.

In classrooms, protests, and cultural movements, her name lived on. Yet for those in East Brunswick, the story often returned to its most basic truth: a police officer never returned home, and it happened right here in our community.


Moving Forward

With the passing of Assata Shakur, a long and complicated chapter has closed. But the memory of May 2, 1973, remains a part of East Brunswick’s story. As we move forward, it is worth reflecting on how a single event on our roads shaped not only national conversations but also the way our own township sees itself in history.

The New Jersey Turnpike still carries millions each year, but for East Brunswick, it also carries the memory of a night when violence erupted and a trooper gave his life in the line of duty.